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Korea: First dating, how to read your partner within 10 minutes.

How can you find a perfect man for yourself as soon as possible? I discovered that a blogger shares some interesting psychological analyses of how you can read personalities and characteristics of a man you’re dating, and find a man who is suitable for your personality.

남자를 꼭 몇개월씩 사귀어야 그 사람의 됨됨이를 알 수 있는 건 아니다. 단 10분 만으로도그 사람의 인성을 어느 정도 파악할 수 있다.

좋아하는 운동은 뭔가?
– 달리기나 수영 같은 혼자 하는 운동을 좋아하는 남자들은 독립적이고 혼자 있는 시간을 즐기는 타입.
– 축구, 농구, 야구 같은 팀 스포트를 즐기는 남자들은 경쟁적이면서도 사람들과 어울리길 좋아하는 타입
– 운동을 거의 하지 않는 남자들은 독립적이고 감성적인, 생각이 깊은 타입일 가능성이 높다.

In order to understand what kind of person you are dating, you don’t have to go out with him for several months. You can catch hold of his personality within 10 minutes.

What is your favorite sport?
-A man who likes running and swimming, which can be done alone, is independent and enjoys his time alone.
-A man who likes team-sports, such as soccer, basketball, and baseball, is competitive and likes to get along with people.
-A man who barely plays sports is possibly independent, sensitive, and a deep-thinker.

얼마나 오래 친구를 사귀는가?
– 10년 이상된 친구들과 친하다: 유대 관계가 깊고 진득한 타입. 그러나 변화를 싫어하는 성격일수도 있으니 주의가 필요. 게다가 신뢰를 얻고 마음을 열게 하기까지 오랜 시간이 걸릴 수도 있음.
– 아무하고나 잘 친해진다: 새로운 환경에 쉽게 적응하는 타입

How long are his friendships?
-He goes out with friends who have known him more than 10 years: His relations are deep and are dignified. However, he might not like change. It might take a long time to get trust from him.
-He goes out with any stranger at ease: He is adjusting to a new environment at ease.

나쁜 버릇엔 뭐가 있는가?
– 도박을 좋아한다: 위험을 쉽게 감수하는 타입. 주변을 즐겁게 해주는 경우가 많으나 지나치게 낙관적이고 현실을 직시하지 못하는 경우가 많다.
– 흡연량이 많다: 초조해하고 걱정이 많을 수 있다.
– 술을 많이 마신다: 자주 불안해하는 성격일 가능성이 많다. 

What bad habits does he have?
-He likes gambling: He intends to face danger. Even though he entertains people around him, but might be way too positive and not be able to face reality.
-He smokes a lot: He could be easily irritated and anxious.
-He drinks a lot: He might have the personality to be frequently uneasy.

의사소통 스타일은?
– 전화보다는 메일을 많이 쓴다: 쉽게 마음을 열지 않는 성격이 가능성 높음. 이메일은 자신의 생각을 여러번 고쳐 보낼 수 있기 때문에 자신의 솔직한 감정을 감추기 쉽다.
– 메신저를 많이 쓴다: 지속적인 관심을 바라는 편, 관심이 없으면 초조해 하는 편.
-전화를 많이 한다: 여자와의 친밀함을 두려워 하지 않는 전형적인 적극적 남성상.

How’s his communication style?
-Rather than calling, he uses email: He might be a person who doesn’t open his mind easily. Email can hide his frank emotion because he can change his thoughts many times.
-He uses internet messengers: He wants consistent attention. Without it, he could be restless.
-He calls a lot: He is not afraid of being close to women. He is a very active man.

여자가 무슨 옷을 입는 것을 좋아하는가?
– 아무렇게나 입는 걸 좋아함: 현실적이고 편안한 타입의 남자
– 비싼 브랜드 옷 입는 걸 좋아함: 특권 의식이 있는, 돈(부)에 관심이 많은 남자. 현재 돈이 많은 사람일지 몰라도 나중에 돈에 너무 많은 가치를 두는 남자일수도 있음
– 야한 옷 입는 걸 좋아함: 자존감이 강한 남자. 남들로부터 부러움을 사는 것을 즐기는 편이다.

What clothes does he like you to wear?
-He likes casual style: He is realistic and he himself is a comfortable style man.
-He likes expensive brand-clothes: He has special privileges and is interested in money and wealth. Even though he has money at present, he might values money too much.
-He likes sexy style: He has strong pride. He enjoys the envy of others.

운전하는 버릇은?
– 차선을 자주 옮기고 앞 차에 바짝 따라붙으며 다른 운전자를 노려봄: 감정을 통제하는데 문제가 있는 남자일 수 있음.
– 막힐 때도 편안하고 느긋하게 운전함: 원래 느긋한 성격이거나 감정 통제가 잘 되는 남자

How’s his driving habit?
-His car is always right behind the car in front and he intends to switch lanes frequently: He has difficulty controlling his emotions.
-He drives comfortably and slowly no matter how horrible the traffic jam is: He is naturally relaxed and controls his emotion well.

좋아하는 TV 프로그램은?
– 시트콤, 연예 프로그램을 잘 봄: 스트레스나 화를 잘 푸는 편일 가능성이 높음. 그러나 진지한 대화가 어려운 상대일 수 있음. 중요한 이야기를 할때 남자가 요점에서 잘 벗어날 수 있으며 이 때문에 여자가 좌절감을 겪을 수 있다.
– CSI 같은 지적인 프로그램을 좋아함: 분석적이고 생각이 깊은 편. 문제가 생겼을 때 해결하려는 능력이 강할 수 있다.

What TV programs does he like?
-He likes to watch TV sitcoms and entertainment programs: He might be a man who escapes from his stress and angers. However, he might be a person who is difficult to have serious conversations with. When you speak about important matters, he might be out of topic all the time and you feel frustration with his conversation.
-He likes TV programs like CSI: He is analytical and thoughtful. When he faces problems, he has strong capability to solve them.

형제 관계는?
– 첫째: 책임감이 강하고 뭔가 맡아서 해보려는 성향이 강하다.
– 막내: 창의적이고 모험심이 강한 편.
– 중간: 많은 관심이 필요한 예민 성격일 가능성 높음.

What order is he of his siblings?
-first one: he has the strong sense of responsibility and tends to take care of matters.
-last one: he is creative and adventurous
-middle: he wants strong attention and is sensitive.

외모에 얼마나 신경을 쓰는가?
– 거울을 자주 보고 헤어 스타일에 신경을 많이 씀: 성공에 대한 잠재적 욕구가 강한 편.
– 외모에 거의 신경 안 씀: 피상적이지 않은 편. 외면보다 내면을 더 중시하는 편.

How much does he care about his appearance?
-He looks at the mirror often and takes care of his hair style: He has strong desire to be successful
-He doesn’t care about his appearance: He is not superficial. He regards internal parts rather than external parts.

같이 있을 때 시선은?
– 대화할 때 시선을 잘 마주치지 않음: 매우 수줍은 성격이거나 믿음직하지 못한 성격.
– 똑바로 마주 봄: 친하려고 애쓰는 편이라 볼 수 있다.
– 눈에 감정이 담김: 여자를 굉장히 좋아하는 상태

His eyesight?
-He doesn’t have eye contact in conversation: He is very shy or not trustful.
-He looks at you directly: He tries hard to be close to you.
-You can read his emotion in his eyes: He likes women a lot.

말하는 스타일
– 말이 무척 많다: 에너지가 넘치는 열정적인 사람. 하지만 매우 자기중심적인 사람일 수도 있음.
– 말수가 적고 천천히 말함: 신중하거나 차분한 성격.

Speaking style
-He speaks a lot: He is energetic and passionate. But he could be very ego-centric.
-He doesn’t speak so much and speaks slowly: He is very cautious and calm.

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